i have a thing for this girl at school :nosweat: , but the problem is that she doesnt realy like me that way, and wont even give me a chance :'( ... i know i probably shouldnt be trying to go out with her if she doesnt... but my heart says differently :-\ ... and back me up on this, you aways want to listen to your heart and follow it
so do you guys have any idea's
*yoshie i already know your input so my suggestion is to stay out of this*
uhm.. okay. :-\
Have you tried the anonymous gift bit, that worked for me once.
not realy... i dont have much of my own money nor do i have a way og anonymously giving it to her... the only way i can is by getting friends to give it to her... andy they'll sing loudger than cat trying to climb up a chalk board... im getting goose bumps just thinking about it
I hate to say this but from someone who has had the same situation just let her be, maybe try to be friends. I know it sucks to hear but from experience it is the only way.
i can keep a secret. oops... wait... u told me to stay out of this....
wait a sec is this the senior girl z liked any ways uh if it were me i would jsut tell ehr the way i feel and not care what her friends think if she doesnt liek em then it will be a one way liekign thing but i would want her to knwo the truth aboutt eh a i feel no amtter what
I agree with Slain, let her go trying your luck with someone that doesn't have the same feelings you do. Even if you do get together it will be a spectacular disaster, I know.
well now i ahve to disagree wiht u draco if he really lokes the girl he will end upo with ehr sooner or later if she is the right one for him however if she isnt then u are rihg thowever if eseh isnt then dont worry aobut gettign toghter wiht her in the first place
Thank you captain obvious, if the feelings aren't genuine or are from a simple infatuation then the result will be a disaster, I know.
yes howeve rho is he to knwo untill he gets to really knwo her jerkwad
Hey now no one cannot interpet their own feelings until they can think about their feelings with no feelings. (Yes I know that is an oxymoron)
0ok well in taht case revan go into a secluded area and mediate until u knwo the answer
well one i meditate on it quite abit of the time... and i've heard the thing about leaving her alone quite a few times as well... but its one of those things you cant forget... you cant letgo... and the more you try and resist it just tears you up even more
do you guys know what i mean?
and yoshie... if it comes up in a convo with her... quote me
ok then jsut try and ge tot know ehr but dont liek stalk ehr or anything jsut try and be her friend for now if that is all u can be jsut make sure she knwos the way u feel about her and try adn be there with a shoulder for her to cry on or something jsut make sure u are there for her
okay... revan, for the last time... she had dumped u 5 thousand times and u have totally ruined it with her. count ur losses. u are acting like David and i know u don't want that.
thats some of the best sounding advice ive heard... it reminds me of an old relationship ive had
the girl left me when i was at lacross camp... we didnt get to talk much so the need to have someone must have drove her to get with someone else... but when i got back i told her that i'll be that soulder... and BAM!!! it was like using TNT to catch fish
wait a sec are we talking aobut anna or something?
no this was another girl... anna moved to texas 1 month into summer vaca
and yoshie... it was because she was sending me signals that i couldnt pickup
and another thing is... one must go out first inorder to get dumped
ok then u lsot me im nto sure i nwo who htis is then but that is understand able y u are having problems if she is sending bad signals or ur antena is jsut broken
can u tell em who it is in a pm so i cna under stand this a little better??
well the week that yosei is sayin we were "going out" it was very weird
because one day it would seem as if she was wanting to go out and then the next she would be telling me to go in the corner and play with joey *my friend below the belt* :-\
tough our only way of communication was through emails after school, because we only had one class together and such, and apparently she must have tried to put emotion into the emails about not being together and i couldnt sence it :'(
ah well now i understand a little better but if u really liekd her u should have walked her to ehr classes then and yeah emotions in emails are kinda hard to read but i understand a little better now though not excatly sure how to handle this int his case i think i should ask kanna her opion sinc ei think a girls point of veiw would be better untill i knwo the whole story so i will hold any moe advice till i know the whole story
she'll agree with me. kanna knows who it is (u wouldn't she was new this year) and agrees that revan is getting too weird about all this.
Revan, she is never gonna go out with you, and the whole you "holding my Taeru notebook hostage" thing was just dumb because neither my "twin" nor I were going to force our friend into going out with you in exchange for it.
yosie... what did i say about staying out of it >:(
sorry... can't help it. you need to think about how R feels in this situation. currently, you're putting all of us at BW you talk to about this in awkward situations. :-\ :( :'(
well i cant help myself either... i want someone i could love and love me back... i want it more than pie, vidgames, making fun of zack/david, and holding things of your hostage
actaully i do knwo who it is and i can help once i get some more of my facts straight so ah and btw i understand how revan feels full adn well and is the reason taht revan cant join tearu becasue of stealling the book?
he could join taeru, i just think we already have enough people.
revan, she is never going to like you if you force her into this. her parents are on the verge of getting a restraining order, for goodness sake. I think you may as well count your losses and take this as a learning experience!
now if only i could get David to follow the same advice...
wait i dindt knwo that last par tok i need ot hear this whole story because as a matter of fact i do know her i think and ok i understand now hwoever u know david wont lsiten and if revan relly likes the girl then he wont care aobut no damn restraingin order eh will jsut go on
AI speaks the truth girl
and im not forcing her into anything... i dont want that type of love because it means nothing... what im trying to do is get a real chance to prove myself and hopefully give her sead what i needs so that she to might have feelings for me
she already had a boyfriend the first time u asked her! (not sure if she still does. afraid of being punched.) if that wasn't a sign to you she wasn't going to be availible, then you've got a seriously thick head. everything just went downhill after that, especially when u started acting like her bodyguard or something.
oh, and the valentine's balloon and flower thing (as an afternote) just made us laugh. She used the flower as an air freshener for her locker. I got the balloon (it deflated... but not before we named it 'karma'. ;D but that's a story for another day.)
i may have been attachy if thats what you mean by body guard... but ive looked into things and guess what... she is single
okay, then either her boyfriend and her broke up, or that was a rejection excuse.
wow this is gettign to be kinda funny no offense revan but dotn get so attache dfirstof all and well jsut go weith the flow a litte but ry my advce from before let her knwo how u feel and jsut try and be ther as a friend for now
yeah thats what i decided to do... and push back the plan i had to later... the plan i obtained from the information i received from julie
errrrrr ok jsut becafefultoh ur plan wahtever it mihg tb
yeah i kno
but seriously dont do anything stupid one i get all my facts in i will try adn ehlpo u come up wiht a good plan
im not going with any plan at the moment other than being there for her... so im waitin... pm me when you get it
ok i will do however even if u dont go wiht any plan be carefgul even if u are trying to jsut be a freind dont be a clingy friend or anything jsut be ur noraml kind oif friend u know waht i mena?
like i was before this entire ordeal
er well no not realluy since if u were having a hard time then then u might want to back off a little more tahtn that
im talking about before i first asked her out
o wellt ehn usre hwoever still elt her know taht u are there for her if u cna only bve a friend for now
... why don't boys ever give up... ???
becasue we are stuborna dnif we gave up then there would never be anyone getting to be wiht the one they are truely supposed to be wiht
ha! trust me. revan doesn't belong with her. She's looking for a totally different guy.
yosie you know nothing about me, all you know about me are some things that are said through the bandwagons. not even arcbad truly knows me
and maby were not supposed to be truly together... but what is wrong going out wile in high school... chances of anyone finding that perseon at our age is low
\and us guys dont give up because if we do then girls would be calling themselves the superior sex...
Hey here is a little bit of probably unwanted advice, and you may dislike me for saying this, but, from experience, you need to cut the whole "real me" mentality.
Quotethat are said through the bandwagons. not even arcbad truly knows me
"truly know me." I used to be just like that--nobody knew the real me and I would wonder whay nobaody ever took the time to get to know "the real me". Then I figured it out. People didn't want to get to know the front I had put on. For me it was goth-- I don't know what it is for you, but my advice is to take off the front and be you--the you that nobody knows. Now sit back and smile and think about what I have told you.
its one of those things that you cant realy show or explain... if you've played KoToR II and have learned about atton... im kinda the same... i put up walls of emotions to prevent things from hurting me and they've hid the true me from even myself
In my experience two people dating don't meet each other. When you are dating your 'represenatives' meet, only when two people are truley in love do the represenatives go away (that is also why half of all marriages end in divorce).
yeah, be careful with putting on emotional barriers. acting like who you want to be and treating the world like one big rpg can be dangerous. *looks back at X-Evo and shudders* trust me. it's just more trouble in the long run.
well alot of what were tlaking about now happend a few years before ive known even david
ive been hurt, shunned, and rejected by society, and in an attempt to heal i have put my emotions behind walls or just plained killed then. my stupidity that you have refused to see anything other than, is a side of me that grew to hide the pain... maby what im reading as loving feelings for her might be somthing else... maby she is the one that can help me unlock my true self
sounds like a movie plot, but i guess that's beside the point.
EDIT: okay, i had typed something else here after that last sentance, but then i realized that it sounded very much like something someone i don't like would say, so i'm not going to say it in order to spare you the agony. *goes off to try hacking X-Evo again to yell at Soon*
... ur right it does :blink:
lol maybe so but i thinki knwo u pretty well and i can understand what u are saying however the thing aobut met the girl at this age is so wrong sinc ei know i have and also the front u wer putting on last year was really weak and esy to see through
well ita also a thing that we know each other and that we are sililar...
im going to make another KoToR reference
keria also known as darth trayus is one of the best mind prober that ever lived in the starwars history. she was able to prob atton who was able to block a jedi who had the strength of yoda from probing his mind
but kreia was not able to even hear bao durs surface thoughts... but the exile, or your character could just because they served in a previous war together, bao dur served under you
its the similar things between us AI
and you also known me from before the most of the walls were erected (that sounds wrong)
... okay, totally lost between the two of you and your bad spelling (no offence, guys. just saying.)
one yosie what is the difference between bad spelling and leet... and the bonus of our bad spelling alllows us to read other peoples bas speling and peoples good spelling :P
i knwo im hyper